Get your man back the right way

Says who? I hate when therapists tell you to “listen what he is say…blah blah!” As you may know, men never say what they mean, or think what they feel!

Have you ever heard of “The Magic of Making Up”?

It is over when you are ready for it to be over, no matter what that is. If it’s your relationship then you have a little bit of work ahead of you, but “no pain, no gain”, right?

So go ahead and put your plan together.

First pull yourself together, you need it for this. The next step is to put together a list with pro and con for your man and pro and cons for your relationship. Think about what didn’t go the way it should have and what you could have done differently.

After carefully considering each and every aspect of your former relationship, start building a new one. Clearly the way the relationship went before did not work out the way you wanted and hoped, so now it has to be different for it to have a chance of  success.

What are his favorite things to do?

• which sport he enjoys watching and/or playing
• ice-cream flavor
• favorite movie
• does he love his car?
• does he love to be social or stay home and relax?

Now it’s all about him. You have to finally make time for him in your life. You have to make sure that you listen to him and know exactly what he wants and what he’s asking for and not what you think he might want (that did not work well before).

Leave the past behind. If you’re not ready to do that, you are not ready for a new loving relationship with him.

Seduce him. Bring the fire back into your love life. This is going to be exciting for both of you.

Make sure you have your own life, too. There’s nothing scarier to a man than a woman who has no life except for him. He will run and never look back.

Have genuine fun with your girlfriends, make one evening of the week – girls’ night.

Let him wonder what you are doing and how come you are having fun without him. It will intrigue him and make him think of you and that is exactly what you want.

Remember, life is supposed to be fun and there’s nothing more attractive in this world than a fun loving woman. Be the Woman Men Adore and Never Want to Leave